Cards

Christmas cards and birthday cards. Nice though they are I can't help feel that they have become and excuse and an easy way of sending a greeting. Not only that, the only people who benefit are the people who produce these cards.

These days it seems the better you know a person or the more you want to make sure the greeting is meant and felt, the more you have to spend. This seems to fit in with the modern culture of capitalism because the more a person means to you, the more you spend on them. Yes, they get the greeting card but the card makers are laughing all the way to the bank. I think that some of your time invested in conveying the greeting is much more appropriate. For example: spending time with the person and telling them face to face, investing your time in making a phone call, writing a text message even or if you want to be really old fashioned, write them a letter. This would convey to the recipient that you really did care enough to do something and invested the time to do it. And remember, an hour of your time (depending on your job) could be worth five pounds or a hundred pounds but is still an hour none the less. It is the same portion of the working week for everybody.

I am not angry with card manufactures, I just feel let down by humanity by the way these greeting cards have become an easy way out. A person does not always have the time yet still wants to convey a message so a greeting card is a convenient way of doing this. It just disappoints me that this has become the norm and to not send a card gives the impression that you have forgotten. My personal opinion is that I prefer to convey my messages of greeting either in person or using the phone. It further annoys me when people say 'Where's my card?' What bloody card? The card is an alternative way of saying happy birthday you moron, I am saying it to you in person! If you want something to remember the fact that I wished you happy birthday, leave your brain in gear and use your memory!